Friday, July 30, 2010

does friendship possible before and after love?

For me being friends is the most beautiful start in a relationship because I believe that when you grow older …as time pass by, being in love could fade away… but your care to your friend… will never fade. Is it really positive to fall in love to a stranger? ... Someone you just bumped into? …Love at first sight? …Uhmm…I’m not really sure …but… Maybe… even though you don’t know that person that much, you will fall in love with her/him? ... Is it true? …I don’t know…do you? ... Being friends with your ex? …At first… it is awkward… at second… it is uncomfortable… sooo WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE?! Haha =)))))))))))) Nah…It’s possible it’s just like drinking using your plate or counting all the stars at day time. Haha =)) joke:P but really it’s possible we’re just the one who makes it so complicated. I know that forgetting something that became a part of your life is not as easy as forgiving the person you really love who hurt you that much. If you really love that person you will forgive him/her no matter what he/she does but it is possible that you will still remember your past. Moving on after that break up is not that easy, but there is a time that you should put aside what happened… and go on with your life. If he/she ignores you after your break up...ignore her/him too…Haha maybe he/she just need some time to moved on…you also need it, but if you break months, years or a century ago and still trying to ignore one another … WHY?? BITTER?? Haha …If you don’t want to be his/her friend again… it’s fine but if you still receives group messages coming from him/her you can reply a simple hi or how are you will do, especially when you think he/she needs your help …after all she/he becomes a part of your life. We should treasure everyone who became a part of our life … because of them we realize more things… they loved you… they care for you… or even hurt you in some points… because of that you became a better person… a stronger one I guess ^_^… just thank them for what they have done for you. Forget that they hurt you …but always remember that there are times that they make you smile and the happiest person on earth even with your sadness days and cheering you up when you really wants to give up.

“THANK YOU”

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